tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post2945830008819085591..comments2023-05-20T04:48:10.910-07:00Comments on Somewhat lower: What to do with pregnant infertiles?Sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02747382929049494704noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-78646003245801482722007-03-02T06:17:00.000-08:002007-03-02T06:17:00.000-08:00I'm with you, babe. People are part of the IF fab...I'm with you, babe. People are part of the IF fabric, no matter where they stand in the success/non-success side of things. I have seen my name moved to other lists recently, and it freaks me out. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for keeping me grounded :)Twisted Ovarieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00517046650604160650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-18124301769378871082007-03-01T21:44:00.000-08:002007-03-01T21:44:00.000-08:00I've been wrestling with this one too. I don't wa...I've been wrestling with this one too. I don't want another reader, sensitive to bellies and babies to stumble into an infertile's pregnancy story. Bit I'd also feel awful moving someone to the pregnant camp only to have to move them back to the trenches far too soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-50046595190661587832007-03-01T16:21:00.000-08:002007-03-01T16:21:00.000-08:00I love this. As a newly pregnant infertile, I am ...I love this. As a newly pregnant infertile, I am happy and cozy right in the same spot I was before. We're sticking together. Thank you.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05854629796340961084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-26704038834408439082007-03-01T12:15:00.000-08:002007-03-01T12:15:00.000-08:00What you say is very true. Still, I decided to mak...What you say is very true. Still, I decided to make categories in my blog roll. When I was first exploring IF blogs, I looked through the blog rolls of some of the high profile IF bloggers. I was a tiny bit frustrated to find that most bloggers were either PG or had kids.<BR/>Of course, seeing that success is fairly common is encouraging, but I was looking for people who were in my situation. <BR/>Cyclesista didn't exist then. :-)<BR/><BR/>Not that I'm trying to convince you, not at all.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-34295701252965418392007-03-01T10:22:00.000-08:002007-03-01T10:22:00.000-08:00yay, i'm all for sticking together too!hope you're...yay, i'm all for sticking together too!<BR/><BR/>hope you're surviving the wait okay with your sanity (mostly) in tact.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587725139301198392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-90503649403173488482007-03-01T04:36:00.000-08:002007-03-01T04:36:00.000-08:00Sara, I loved your post. And it is so true that be...Sara, I loved your post. And it is so true that being pregnant does not resolve our infertility. I took the choice to seperate my fav blogs into trying and pregnant because when I was trying there were awful times when I could not bear reading pregnancy blogs. It would just make me too sad about my situation. But before a cycle, I would need to find as many pregnant-after-the-same-type-of-cycle (be it FET #1 or IVF#2) I could find, to give me hope. I wish I've had your strenght to be able to look at all infertility blogs without discrimination, but I was not. Even discovering that Journey to the center of the egg just had her baby was a stark reminder for me that my IVF#2 did not work out (we cycled on the same days). I am really happy for her, and damn it, I am pregnant, but I still think "yeah, if IVF#1 or 2 had worked, I would be a mum now". I wish I was a better person than I am! :-)Marie-Baguettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01149548077358647791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-81529318867240761542007-03-01T03:55:00.000-08:002007-03-01T03:55:00.000-08:00I like your outlook. I desperately try to separate...I like your outlook. I desperately try to separate them because I fear someone will visit and stumble upon a pregnant blog....and basically go postal. But I agree they will never be the same as someone that it was easy for. On a side note, I do get concerned that when I move them over to ah hum pg, they will think I jinxed them. Good post, I now have to ponder this...I was just updating my blog this morning. Thanks.Infertile Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04978806371476536537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-66086009975435515542007-03-01T00:10:00.000-08:002007-03-01T00:10:00.000-08:00I did the same thing with my blogroll. I decided t...I did the same thing with my blogroll. I decided to place everyone together in "My Support Group" I agree, there's no need for categories. <BR/><BR/>Wishing and hoping for good news Sara.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-25509032914549999602007-02-28T23:17:00.000-08:002007-02-28T23:17:00.000-08:00You are so right. Pregnancy doesn't suddenly make...You are so right. Pregnancy doesn't suddenly make everything alright.<BR/>Wishing you lots of luck in your 2ww - keep us updated on how it's going!Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02602506060731650727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2687720633955485205.post-33703110881145568392007-02-28T20:52:00.000-08:002007-02-28T20:52:00.000-08:00HI Sara! I just made my way to your blog from one...HI Sara! I just made my way to your blog from one of the Cyclesista lists and have so enjoyed your well-written posts. It's late and I need to go to bed but I wanted to say "best wishes" as you endure your 2WW. Hope to find some good news when I check back. :)AshPashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02520009623500360169noreply@blogger.com